sometimes life sucks...

**madadman** · July 12th, 2005, 03:14 AM

Sorry to hear about your troubles. One thing about women, once they've made up their mind about something it's hard to reverse it. Hope the trip helps, but personally I'd get to the bottom of things now and possibly cancel the trip. It could be really uncomfortable if you don't.

**Peter Peeker** · July 12th, 2005, 03:17 AM

damn, Dom...

all I can do is wish you my best... [img]graemlins/heart.gif[/img] [img]graemlins/beer.gif[/img]

**grail25** · July 12th, 2005, 03:19 AM

Actually I think whe're both seing that the end is near... So at least it's not only her decision... You're not the first person telling me to cancel the trip, but flushing 600$ down the drain is a little bit frustrating... and we're going to Iles-de-la-Madelaine, the most beautiful place I ever went to... I really want to go back... so I'm like torn between those 2 choice... end the relation and screw my vacation or stay with her for another week and maybe have a little fun while I'm in the "Iles"

I really don't know what I'll do... Thanks Madadman! It's really appreciated. [img]graemlins/thumbs_up.gif[/img]

**grail25** · July 12th, 2005, 03:20 AM

Originally posted by Peeker:
damn, Dom...

all I can do is wish you my best... [img]graemlins/heart.gif[/img] [img]graemlins/beer.gif[/img]

<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Thanks Scott! I'll take a couple of those beers... and I'll probably finish Tony's rhum this week too... lol

**Peter Peeker** · July 12th, 2005, 03:21 AM

this may sound heartless but...

would you go without her?

**Shypappette** · July 12th, 2005, 03:24 AM

Wow, that's hard! I can understand you still wanting to go on your vacation.
Maybe you should go on the vacation so you don't miss out, and then have your "talk" with her on the last day of the vacation, when you're both a little euphoric from the nice surroundings and relaxing week. Maybe it will make things easier on you. Then you can fly back together and begin a new life.

That's a hard call! I hope you're ok! [img]biggrin.gif[/img] [img]graemlins/rose.gif[/img]

**Andyman** · July 12th, 2005, 03:29 AM

Bummer Grail. I hope things work out for you.

**grail25** · July 12th, 2005, 03:30 AM

Originally posted by Peeker:
this may sound heartless but...

would you go without her?

<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">It's not heartless, but yes I'd go without her... but if she's not there I'd be a little f*cked since we're staying in her grand-pa's home, we're using the car that her father sent there for us and all her familly is there... [img]confused.gif[/img]
I'd go with someone else in a couple of years, but it would cost me a max to stay there for a week... so yes I feel like I'm kinda using her for that... [img]frown.gif[/img]

**grail25** · July 12th, 2005, 03:33 AM

Originally posted by Shypappette:
Wow, that's hard! I can understand you still wanting to go on your vacation.
Maybe you should go on the vacation so you don't miss out, and then have your "talk" with her on the last day of the vacation, when you're both a little euphoric from the nice surroundings and relaxing week. Maybe it will make things easier on you. Then you can fly back together and begin a new life.

That's a hard call! I hope you're ok! [img]biggrin.gif[/img] [img]graemlins/rose.gif[/img]

<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">I've tought about a couple of "scenarios" and that one is the most likely to happen... I think I'll wait and see. I know I'll be ok, it's only a bad phase I need to go through... Only upside is I'll go and take an apointement (sp?) for my tattoo lol!

Originally posted by Andyman:
Bummer Grail. I hope things work out for you.

<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Thanks Andy [img]smile.gif[/img]